Seeing all things as one is a strategic viewpoint I use to broaden my perspective in an attempt to love everything.
When I think about the immense, expanding nature of our universe, I can’t help but believe that we’re all in this together. We are innately connected by our core motivation; to be happy.
I understand that our unique experiences, environments and circumstances make life different for everybody. Our oneness is often hidden in plain view. It would be naive of me to say that we should suppress our differences and unite as one. I think that misses the point. I will suggest, that we learn how to honor these differences. That we create space within ourselves, which, in turn, allows us to see how similar we are, despite our differences.
I hope, with this blog, to nurture my willingness (and maybe yours) to open to this commonality and connection.
As you may know, I was diagnosed with chronic myeloid leukemia (CML) in March 2018. It is currently the rock in my river. Many of my posts will be about coping with this deadly disease. Through much reflection, I believe I was diagnosed with cancer because I needed to learn how to truly love and accept myself. Putting in this foundation of self-love has really helped me. However, I’ve learned that it’s not static, it’s not an event. Cultivating this mindset requires attention each and every day. It is something that I constantly work at.
So, I will often be writing through the lens of self-awareness, mindfulness, self-compassion and acceptance. While this has worked for me, I don’t know or assume that it will work for you. It’s just what I know. I hope it does, but I also understand that we all have our own paths.
I intend for All Things Are One to serve me on a couple personal levels as well:
- Outlet- I tend to keep things bottled up inside. Often unsure how to express myself. Writing has become a valuable channel for me. There’s a healing aspect to it. Seeing the receptiveness of a blank page is therapeutic for me on a certain level.
- Resistance-The process of writing is frustratingly beautiful. I usually resist it at first, letting doubt persuade me it’s not worth it. I’ve realized that overcoming this internal resistance is empowering.
- Routine- I haven’t had much routine in my life lately. This blog will help me change that. I’m going to try my best to publish one post each week. Every week. Maybe more.
When I write about my struggles it is not meant to be a grasp at sympathy. It is meant to shed light on suffering, instead of turning away from it. By openly talking about my suffering I hope others won’t feel as isolated in their’s. I won’t only be writing about suffering though, as that would not be fair to all the joy, contentment and love I feel.
I’m excited to share my journey and appreciate each and every one of you that joins me along the way!
All Things Are One